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Gay Priests Etc. By Andrew Sullivan Daily Dish on andrewsullivan.com March 7, 2002 http://www.andrewsullivan.com/index.php?dish_inc=archives/2002_03_03_dish_archive.html Thanks for all your emails. I apologize for seeming angry these last couple of days. The truth is I have never been as depressed about a Church I love. Perhaps this story will help explain why. Some of you may remember my brief account of a wonderful ordination I attended last summer. It was of a friend of mine, my own age, who, unlike me and most of his peers, has dedicated his life to vows of poverty, chastity, obedience and service to God and his fellow men and women. He trained for seven years as a Jesuit. He has worked among the poor, the blighted of the inner city, the young, the needy. He does God's work, without any expectation of worldly rewards, and when I see what he has done to reach out to African-American Catholics in places others fear to tread, I feel only awe and shame at my own selfishness. At several moments in my own faith-journey, he has picked me up and helped me back on my feet. He is a good, good man. I love him as a brother. And, yes, he's gay. When I hear his life and work and dignity trashed, violated, insulted and demeaned by the pope's spokesman, my anger rises, and now, as I write this, the tears well. But you know what? My friend is the real church. He is the real spokesman for the Gospels. And this other spokesman for a Vatican who declared every gay priest a molester-in-waiting has only his conscience to answer to. My friend tells me to go back to the sacraments, to pray that the real church will survive this, and to believe that Our Lord will guide his church back from the secrecy, shame and evil that now infects it. His faith under siege is an inspiration and a goad. Those of us in a state of disbelief and depression need to remember that these hierarchical gay-baiters and protectors of child-molesters cannot take our faith from us, and that our church - the real church - needs us now as never before. Now, The Difficult Question But some of you raise important questions. Couldn't it also be true that
there are indeed some cliques of gay priests in seminaries and elsewhere,
and that celibacy is flouted by some of these people, if not many? Isn't
it also true that some of these incidents are not classic pedophile cases,
but more like pederast cases, where the victims are not children but under-age
youths? I think the answer to both questions is, sadly, yes. The question
is what do we make of it? We don't have clear data but it's a fair bet
to say that disproportionate numbers of priests are gay. I think that
proportion may have increased over the decades as fewer and fewer men
become priests and those who get ordained may do so to avoid conflicts
over sexual identity. But why should this matter? Celibacy is the rule
- for gays and straights. If gays are flouting it, they should be called
to account on exactly the same grounds as straights. It becomes a deeper
practical and pastoral issue for gays, in my opinion, because the struggle
for gay priests to remain celibate is not openly and frankly dealt with.
The lingering stigma of homosexuality in the church means that the closet
is still the rule rather than the exception, and so these priests are
driven underground where they cannot get help and guidance. The closet
forces people into further feelings of shame and guilt and secrecy, generating
an unhealthy atmosphere in which cliques thrive, cover-ups multiply and
scandals are inevitable. The solution? Not more secrecy and purges, but
more openness and honesty. If every gay priest were out to his superiors,
out to his parishioners, and out to the world, I think we'd be in a much
healthier place. Since being gay is not sinful as such, there's no doctrinal
problem with this. And such fresh air is not as conducive to psycho-sexual
pathologies as the current stifling secrecy. But of course the Church
would be embarrassed to announce that gay men are among its strongest
pillars, because it still harbors in attitude if not doctrine a lingering
loathing of homosexuality, and its own increasingly strained sexual doctrines
would seem far less potent if gays were front and center in the church's
public image. So the shame continues, the secrecy deepens, the pathologies
worsen and the scandals multiply. The only way out is candor and serious
pastoral care for gay and straight priests alike. This question seems to me to be interesting but beside the point. Priests
are supposed to be celibate. And if they're not celibate, they're breaking
their vows, whether they're gay or straight. If they're not celibate with
consenting adults, they're criminals, whether they're gay or straight.
What more do we need to discuss? The sly point of raising this issue,
of course, is to insinuate that homosexuality is somehow more likely to
be expressed with children and under-age youths than heterosexuality.
But there's no credible evidence for this. In fact, much evidence points
in the other direction. Britney Spears, anyone? Anna Kournikova? You think
straights are less attracted to youth than gays? When this slur fails
to stick, the Church's spinmeisters try another one: that being gay is
a form of sickness and that part of that sickness is an inability to control
one's sexual desires. So gays should be purged from the church because
they cannot help themselves, while straight pedophiles can. Here's a quote
that addresses that precise point: the notion that homosexuals are sexually
compulsive and cannot restrain their desires is an "unfounded and
demeaning assumption." Moreover, the "human person, made in
the likeness and image of God, can hardly be adequately described by a
reductionist reference to his or her sexual orientation." That's
from the 1986 Vatican authoritative document called "The Pastoral
Care of Homosexual Persons." This is the document that Navarro-Valls
single-handedly threw out the window over the weekend to promote his own
personal, heretical agenda. The authentic teaching of the Church unequivocally
rebuts the hierarchy's current attempt to scape-goat its own gay priests
to deflect attention from hierarchical malfeasance. That shows just how
desperate and unprincipled they have become. Their arguments are not only
expedient, cynical and self-serving. They are un-Catholic in every sense
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